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7 Things To Remember Before You Have Sex For The First Time

Here is what you need to remember before the first time you have sex. Read about it.
  • Krati Purwar
  • Editorial
Published -15 Jul 2022, 18:35 ISTUpdated -17 Jul 2022, 11:20 IST
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Chances are that you will always remember the first time you have sex. However, with the first time comes many misconceptions in addition to a lot of excitement. Sex also comes with worries of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies. But there is more to it. Here is a list of things you must remember before having sex for the first time ever.

It Does Not Matter How You Look Naked

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As women, we are often made to be more conscious about how we look, irrespective of what we are wearing. You might be worried if your partner will find you sexy enough in bed. But it will not matter.

The first time will be about discovering each other and enjoying the moment. You will feel a little flushed when aroused, and forget all your worries about how you look. Also, nothing changes in your appearance before or after sex. Your partner found you attractive before and will continue to afterwards. 

Orgasm Takes Time And Should Not Always Be The Goal

You must have heard that orgasm is the goal of sex. However, it takes time to reach there, more if it is your first time. Therefore, you must not shy away from plenty of foreplay and find pleasure in every bit of it. 

For women mostly, it takes time to reach their climax. It is also possible that it might not happen the first time because your mind and body might not be in sync. However the more you focus on enjoying the journey, the better it will get with time and practice.

Discuss Contraception

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It is crucial to discuss contraception if you want to avoid sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and urinary tract infections (UTIs). It will also prevent unwanted pregnancies. 

Condoms are the most effective method of contraception to decrease the chances of catching sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It could be a little uncomfortable for the first time, but protection is crucial. Also, remember that oral contraceptives do not protect you against STIs and UTIs.

There is no scientific evidence saying you cannot get pregnant the first time you have sex. You might get pregnant. Hence you must speak to your partner about birth control options and pregnancy beforehand. It is always better to be safe than sorry. 

It Is Not Supposed To Hurt

If you have read that having sex for the first time is painful, it is wrong. It is not supposed to be painful. You will experience a little discomfort with penetration for the time, but it should not be painful. If it is, you can and must stop proceeding forward.

You can also use a lubricant (uses of lubricant) for the first or nth time you are having sex. It helps to ease the discomfort and keeps the condom in place. The discomfort and awkwardness fade with time.

You May Or May Not Bleed

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There is no way of knowing if you will bleed after the first time you have sex (why do women want sex). There is no hard and fast rule for it. If your hymen is already stretched from physical activities before, you might not bleed at all.

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You Can Say ‘No’ At Any Time

If you feel like not going forward with the whole process at any point, you can say ‘No’. Even if you have started it, you are allowed to stop and change your mind. ‘No’ is a complete sentence and will help you assert healthy boundaries between you and your partner.

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It’s Not All About Penetration

Sex is not just about penetration. It is everything from foreplay to orgasm. Hence, you must not be fixated on any one bit. Try to enjoy every bit of it, get into the rhythm and have an amazing time. 

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