Weddings are exciting events, but arranging the perfect wedding is stressful and takes a great amount of planning. This becomes tiring for everyone including the bride. However, the bride-to-be struggles do not end there, but they are only the beginning. Learn about some of these struggles that every bride goes through before their big wedding day. And If you have gone through the process, then sit back and enjoy reading this relatable list.
Everyone Feels The Need To Tell You What To Do
As soon as you announce your wedding, people will rush up to you and try to advise you on how to handle your marriage. They won't stop there; they'll continue to irritate you with uncalled advices like how your life will be forever changed, and how you should live your life now.
The Best Lehenga Hustle
To find the perfect lehenga for the wedding is a big hustle. You've probably already got something in mind while shopping for the wedding lehengas. In fact, you probably have a Pinterest board dedicated to your favourite designs. Finding the one, on the other hand, isn't as simple as clicking 'Pin it!' You'll be visiting so many places and before you know it, you'll be drowning in an ocean of lehenga choices just to get one lehenga. The shopping hustle will get so much that eventually you'll start hating shopping.
Eating Less To Fit In Your Dress
After purchasing the lehenga, the struggle to keep your body in shape to fit into the lehenga you worked so hard to get continues. The exhausting planning, on the other hand, can make you want to stress eat, which you cannot do. If you feel the stress is too much, snack on something like chewing gum or drink water or tea.
The Hunt For The Best Makeup Artist
To get the best makeup on your wedding day, you work hard to find the best makeup artists. The research, examination and analysis takes a lot of effort and is a big part of wedding MADNESS!
Deciding The Best Hairstyle
Another big struggle is to decide hairstyles for each wedding function. With so many hairstyle choices, the questions like, "will this hairstyle suit my face shape?", "Should I keep my hair open or make a beautiful braid?" etc. will irritate you for real.
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Breaking Down Remembering The Good Old Days
A random thought will strike in your mind and you'll get emotional remembering the good old days. The thoughts can be overwhelming and triggering but you need to understand your anxiety triggers. The moment can be challenging, but you should know what you should be doing right now.
With an expectation of a perfect fairytale wedding, brides-to-be often overlook the stress and anxiety that comes along with it. But it's important to take care of your mental health first. Remember, perfection can only be achieved when you are happy. Plan your wedding in a way that does not exhaust you much. Take care and good luck!
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