The best part about dating is the thrill and attention you receive from your significant other. But for the times you don’t feel it, it turns into a chaotic mess. You may not want to continue things and it is important, to be honest, and upfront about it!
Why Is It So Hard To Say No?
Why are we all people pleasers? Why can’t we prioritize ourselves? Why do we feel stomped on?
Maybe not everyone, but you sometimes get lonely if you isolate yourself and feel the need to interact every once in a while.
That’s perfectly normal since we’re all sociable creatures!
Fine-tuned by millennia of natural selection, we as a species have evolved with more or less a built-in desire to avoid conflict, keep the peace, and help out others… even if it comes at our own expense.
Helping out others with no immediate benefit (or even harm) to ourselves is known in the world of evolutionary biology as reciprocal altruism.
That’s when animals (including humans!) do things to temporarily lower their own evolutionary fitness while improving someone else’s, with the expectation that the favor will be returned at some point.
Reciprocal altruism is just one piece of a larger puzzle that seems to suggest that cooperation and social harmony, not competition, were the primary drivers for the advancement of our species.
Are there easier ways to let down somebody or just politely say no? Here are some ways we think are the best to reject somebody!
I Don’t Feel The Attraction Anymore
Lost the physical quotient with them? This is what you can say to them, 'I think you are a wonderful person, but I just don't feel any attraction for you. I'm sorry.'
Here’s another way you can put forward the same thing to your significant other, 'Hey I think you're great, but the chemistry just isn't there'
Not Wanting A Relationship?
While the person may seem good, the vibe means a lot. If the vibe doesn’t fit you, it is an ideal situation to bring your terms to an end with the same person. Wondering what to say at times like these? Here are 3 options!
'I'm not interested in dating right now, but thanks that meant a lot'.
'Sorry but I'm not interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you'
'I'm not interested in dating right now, but thanks that meant a lot'."
Meeting Somebody Else Already?
While dating, a person is available to see many people at the same time. It is not something that is considered cheating unless you have committed to the same person.
How do you say no to the person you’re not interested in? Here are some ways you can put your thoughts into words!
‘I have been seeing somebody else too, and I don’t think it is fair to either of you. I hope you understand.’
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