Going On A First Date? 5 Safety Tips To Follow

Your first date can be the start of something new or turn out to be the worst experience of your life! While first dates are all about seeing your connection and chemistry, you should not ignore your personal safety. Your safety must always be the top priority, especially when you're meeting someone for the very first time. You should be extra careful while going on dates with people you’ve only chatted with on dating apps. For the date, you deserve to enjoy your time and see if there’s a spark between you two. You can leave all your worries about your safety at home by following some simple tips. Let’s dive into the best safety tips for your first date to have a worry-free date! 

Safety Tips To Follow On First Date

Here are some tips that you should keep in mind when going on your first date with someone. These tips will ensure that you have a great time and don't get traumatised by a creepy experience.

1. Meet In A Public Place

Whenever you plan to meet someone for a date, choose a public place for the venue where there are other people around. It could be cafes, restaurants, parks or even your favourite mall. Don’t agree to meeting them at their house before you get to know or trust the person. 

2. Inform Someone About Your Plans Beforehand

Before leaving your place for the date, keep your friend, roommate or even a parent informed about your date plans. Tell them who you are meeting, their name, photo, the place you are meeting and by when you expect to be home. Share this information with someone you trust, as they will be able to track you down easily. You can also share your live location with that trusted person and even set up a check-in time to call or text you at a specific period.

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3. Arrange Your Own Transportation

While reaching the decided meeting place, drive on your own or take a cab to the venue. You can even take public transportation like the Metro. Even after the date has ended, decline the offer to be dropped off at home by your date. Do not rely on your date to pick you up or drop you off. This will give you the choice to leave whenever you feel uncomfortable. It even keeps your home address private from a stranger you just met.

4. Guard Your Drink And Limit Alcohol

Whenever you order drinks at a cafe or restaurant, please keep your eyes glued to your glass. Never leave your drink unattended as you are meeting a stranger. Accept drinks coming directly from the bartender or the server. While it is generally not recommended to get alcohol on the first date, if you do order it, don’t go overboard on it. Be sure to limit your alcohol consumption, as it will ensure you stay more aware and in control of your decisions and surroundings.

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5. Trust Your Gut Feeling

Sometimes, all things can seem fine, but your gut feeling might tell you that that’s not the truth. If something your date says or does which makes you feel uneasy, awkward, or unsafe, do not ignore that feeling. You have no obligation to stay when you're feeling unsafe. Act on your instinct and leave the date immediately. Have an exit plan ready for such a situation beforehand, like an excuse you agreed upon with your friend. They can call you to get you out of that weird date.

The next time you plan to go on a first date, keep these simple tips in mind. By following these safety tips for your first date, you will have a wonderful time with that special someone.

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