Found Your ‘Purple Person’? Here’s How to Spot Your Human Safety Net!

In a world where connections are often fleeting, some individuals stand out as beacons of profound stability and comfort. These special figures, often described as 'Purple People,' anchor us during turbulence and celebrate our joys with genuine intent. According to Dr. Chandni Tugnait, MD (A.M) Psychotherapist, Life Alchemist, Coach & Healer, Founder & Director of Gateway of Healing, the concept of a 'Purple Person' represents a unique and deeply meaningful presence in our lives.

Here is how you can understand and identify your purple person through three key insights:

How would you define a 'Purple Person'?

Somewhere between soulmate and best friend is a person that is being called by the online community as their Purple Person. Not the exciting one, not the calm one, but the one who feels like both at once, the person who makes you feel instantly at home. 

How do you know if someone is your "Purple Person"? 

A purple person is someone around whom you don't perform. Conversation feels easy, silence feels comfortable, and you stop editing yourself the moment you're with them. A purple person isn't who excites you the most; it's who makes you feel the safest.

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How can one spot their Purple Person?

You can spot yours by observing simple things like, who do you call first with good news, and who do you call first when something goes wrong? If it's the same name both times, that's your purple person. Remember, home isn't always a place; sometimes it's a person who makes you feel instantly understood.

Conclusion

Recognising these individuals in our lives is essential. A purple person provides an extraordinary sense of comfort, safety, and understanding that grounds us. Valuing and cherishing these rare connections helps us nurture the relationships that bring genuine warmth and stability to our world.

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